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I help women 40+ go from roommates to teammates again.

These are women who feel stuck in their health and relationships and are ready to create lasting change so they can wake up energized, confident, and fulfilled, without falling back into old patterns.

Are you ready to feel strong, seen, and in control again?

  • MORE ENERGY
    & CLARITY

  • STRONGER
    RELATIONSHIPS

  • HEALTHIER HABITS

    & PURPOSE

Coaching for Women in Midlife Who Are Ready for Real Transformation in their relationships.

You're relationship is not broken and you just need a supportive person to help you navigate through this difficult time.

You're tired of feeling stuck, stretched thin, or emotionally disconnected. My coaching is designed for women who want to rebuild their relationships with compassion, clarity, and lasting change.

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Get to Know

Rachael Tarfman-Perez.

Hi, I’m Rachael, a relationship-focused wellness coach with a background in marriage & family therapy. I help women in midlife reset their health and relationships so they can move from stress and confusion to calm, clarity, and connection. With a holistic, healing-centered approach, blending emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being, I’m here to walk beside you as you create an identity and relationship that truly supports and reflects who you are now.

As a therapist, I have helped women move from:

  • Self-doubt → self-confidence

  • People-pleasing → healthy boundaries

  • Constant stress → greater balance and wellbeing

  • Relationship frustration → stronger connection

  • Negative self-talk → self-compassion

  • Feeling unheard → communicating with confidence

  • Burnout and overwhelm → renewed energy and purpose

How I Help 40+ Women Create Lasting Change

I help women move from:

  • Feeling invisible → feeling valued and seen

  • Losing themselves in caregiving and responsibilities → reconnecting with who they are

  • Living on autopilot → living with greater purpose and intention

  • Self-doubt and second-guessing → confidence and self-trust

  • Constantly putting themselves last → making themselves a priority without guilt

  • Feeling disconnected from their partner → rebuilding emotional connection

  • Living like roommates → becoming teammates again

  • Avoiding difficult conversations → communicating with clarity and confidence

  • Resentment and frustration → understanding and healthier boundaries

  • Carrying the emotional load alone → creating more support and partnership

  • Feeling stuck in old patterns → creating meaningful, lasting change

  • Wondering "Is this all there is?" → feeling excited about what's next

Midlife isn't the end of your story—it's an opportunity to reconnect with yourself, strengthen your relationships, and create a life that feels more aligned, fulfilling, and authentically yours.

The Damn Good Connection Reset

The Damn Good Connection Reset is a 12-week 1:1 coaching program, we work step-by-step to help you understand what is draining your energy, quiet the inner critic, set healthier boundaries, communicate more clearly, and reconnect with the woman you want to be in your health, life, and relationship.

This is not about forcing date nights, pretending everything is fine, or becoming the “perfect” partner. It is about creating real change from the inside out so you feel more grounded, confident, heard, supported, and connected.

By the end of the program, the goal is for you to stop feeling like you are carrying everything alone and start feeling like you are part of a stronger, healthier partnership — with more self-trust, better communication, and a clearer path forward.

Ready to get started?

The Inner Critic Detox Mini-Course

NEW!

Your inner critic is loud… but that doesn’t mean it’s right.

The Inner Critic Detox is a 5-day reset to help you quiet the self-doubt, interrupt negative thought patterns, and reconnect with a more grounded, supportive voice inside your head.

You don’t need to become someone new—
you just need to stop tearing yourself down.

Are you ready to get started?

Here's what other women have said about working with me.

Join my community that has made the decision to gain clarity and transformation!

I have more energy and different perspective. I am able to give myself some grace and also realize that rest is productive! 

You are personable and understanding and friendly. I could tell you truly cared about me and my well being.

Jenni N.

Author & Parent Educator

I noticed I'm much more disciplined, sleep better, have a better routine and plan of action. 

People should know that you work with them to help them achieve their goals in the best way possible. You're a great guide and coach.

Gabriella K.

Author, Teachers Aide

“True wellness transforms how you live, love, and lead.”

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